Four weeks into having a house on the market and I am totally over it. Four weeks ago I was the positive one, the one who believed that there were heaps of people out there who would just love to live in our home.
Four weeks ago, I believed that having 60 days to sell our house would be more than enough time.
Four weeks ago, I believed that by the end of February we would be in our new home, planning where we were going to build for my folks.
Four weeks ago, I was naive enough to believe all of the above.
Four weeks on I have come to the realisation that I am no longer that positive.
Four weeks on I have come to the realisation that I don't know if there is anyone who wants to live in our home.
Four weeks on I have come to the realisation that people don't read adverts properly. Nowhere on the advert is 'Living on water' mentioned or even implied and yet people turn up each week to our open house and leave, disappointed, because it isn't on water. I guess they thought it was a real bargain at that price on water !!!
Four weeks on I have realised that I am not as patient as I thought I could be.
Four weeks on I just want to pull the pin on the whole thing and get back to living my life like normal instead of living around open houses and wondering about what is going to happen and when we are likely to move.
Four weeks on I don't want my lack of positivity to hinder the process but I am battling to 'keep my chin up' and remember that 'what will be will be' and that 'everything happens for a reason' - right now it all sucks big time and I am feeling miserable.
I know it's a process that has to run it's course but I feel like a petulant toddler who wants to throw a tantrum by lying on the floor and screaming the roof down.
But, because it's Tuesday and it's been forever since I have joined in with the lovely Jess from EssentiallyJess for #IBOT.
Do you have any experience in
selling your home ?
Was it a good or bad experience for you ?
Please let me know I'm not the only one
who gets impatient with things like this.
TFTD : Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.
I think people don't realize there are houses in your suburb NOT on the water. People be dumb! I'm sorry it's not worked out yet. Selling and buying real estate is the most stressful thing ever. Everything crossed the next person to walk through your front door falls in love and snaps it up. xo
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Good luck, I don't have any experience in selling homes, or buying! We built and that was that, we're still here. The right person will come along eventually xx
ReplyDeleteWhen we bought this house I never expected to move either - I was going to die in this house !!!! Now that circumstances have changed (we no longer pack shelves at night) and the old people aren't getting any younger, I agreed to the move - maybe I should have stuck to my guns about dying in this house !!! LOL
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Wishing you well lovely, sorry it has been such a draining process for you. Hang in there a little bit longer I am sure your positivity will pay off. Sending lots of fairy wishes and butterfly kisses your way
ReplyDeleteThank you - yes, hopefully it won't be too long before we have an answer one way or the other !
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I have no experience in selling a house and I can't imagine how frustrating it must be. I have to admit, this is how I feel about losing weight some times. I hope the perfect family comes along soon for you, nobody should have to live around open houses all the time because nobody should have to keep their house that clean all the time! #teamIBOT
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY right - keeping it clean and tidy every single day is driving me nuts !! Actually I have started to cheat - if I think nobody is likely to come (because the agent doesn't have a key so he has to phone us to bring someone around) - I pick something that I don't do - but something that isn't big so if he wants to bring someone around after work, it won't take me long to straighten it up / clean it up / tidy it up !!!
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They say selling or buying real estate is the most stressful of all stresses!!
ReplyDeleteHang in there hun..there will be someone you does want to live in your house. xx
Yip - it's the patience that I need to find and hold onto !!!
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I have some positive energy to spare at the moment, sending you some of it, better use it quick, the way this year has been might need it back soon :). Open homes and house selling sucks big time...... Take care :)
ReplyDeleteAwww thanks Jackie - gladly accepted on condition I can send some back if you need it again !!
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Awww I am sorry to hear that selling is so stressful. We looked at doing it last year and I decided to renovate instead. I am sure there is the perfect buying for your home and that you can find another place that is perfect. Stay well xxx
ReplyDeleteThanks Eleise - that is part of the problem - we have found another place and have 60 days to sell our place. But, at the end of the day, if we can't sell, we will take it off the market because there will be another house out there that will be suitable.
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That does sound stressful. Hang in there. I wish I had some great advice for you but I'm a novice and must be naive too cause all of your expectations sounded pretty reasonable to me :-( All is not lost though, good luck!
ReplyDeleteThanks Kate - I take heart from the fact that someone else doesn't think my expectations are unreasonable !!!!
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Oh I hear ya. Hate hate HATE the whole house selling thing, it was NEVER easy for us either. And then you'd hear those stories of people who sold within days if not hours of being listed - I would grind my teeth and be ready to KILL ... ha ha.
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I know !!!! I try to be really happy for them but it's so bloody difficult !!! I just want to find their buyer and say "Hey - why didn't you buy our house ?" (even if it wasn't the right size, price or in the right suburb !!!!)
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Selling a house sucks, And it's heart breaking cos you love your house and then no one wants it (or wants it enough, or wants to pay enough).
ReplyDeleteHorrible experience, but it does eventually all work out in the end....
LOL - you are right - it is heart breaking when people come to see our/your home and don't love it like we/you do. I am feeling better today (I wrote the post yesterday) and am much more positive about it than I have been the past 3 days.
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Such a stressful situation to be in Linda! It can be so disheartening. I know I get impatient all the time, just got to trust that the right buyer comes at the right time! in the meantime invest that stress and do something fun to take your mind off it!
ReplyDeleteWe have family coming over from Perth for 5 days so hopefully that will help to take my mind off it ! Well at least until I see the mess that is created and have to tidy / clean up again !!
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Oh this does not sound like fun at all! I have only built a house - and that was stressful enough! Hope the right buyer with the right price walks through your door very soon! In the mean time, a walk outside near the beach or go ahead and throw that tantrum - just to clear the stress and anxiety of it all!
ReplyDeleteI think that building is probably more stressful than buying and selling - at least when we build for my folks there won't be deadlines of getting them out of where they live and into the new place - when it is built and ready for them to move in, they can move in.
DeleteMaybe a walk down by the Broadwater and a big long scream will be on the cards after work today - thank you !!!
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Selling is indeed a tiresome thing and it can feel hopeless but hang in there honey! Sending positive vibes your way x
ReplyDeleteThanks Kellie - it definitely is tiresome !!!!
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Wishing you good luck in selling your home soon Team #IBOT
ReplyDeleteThank you - all luck gratefully accepted !!!
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I hope you get someone who falls in love with your house soon. I couldn't even imagine having to live your life around open houses, having them pick apart a place that has been your home. I hope that it all ends for you soon xx
ReplyDeleteThank you - I make sure not to ask the agent what people are saying about it - I love it too much to hear what someone else doesn't like about it !!!
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Tough situation, the constant cleaning! Hoping it sells soon :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Fiona - me too !!!!
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I do not have any experience with selling a house but I can only imagine how disruptive to life it is and that you are sick of living in limbo. I hope it all comes together soon for you. Believe that it will.
ReplyDeleteIt definitely is really disruptive - and I am now back to being positive and believing that it is going to sell by the end of this month.
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It took months for our first place to sell with a few disappointments along the way but it eventually sold. Our last two sales were much quicker but you can never tell in a given market. I have everything crossed that the perfect buyer will walk through your door sooner rather than later!
ReplyDeleteI'm staying positive that it isn't going to take months and that by the end of February we will be in our new home - that really is all I have control over - staying positive !!!
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PS - I loved the 'book' you and Nathan did for your children to take on holiday with them - it was excellent !!
Oh L - I am so sorry to hear that the moving/selling shenans are taking a toll on you. I know what it feels like when you are all down int he dumps and people tell you ti will be ok, sometimes you want to swipe them one. However, because screens seperate us right now... I will tell you, it WILL be ok.. You will look back on this in a month, 2 months, 6 months and think, WOW, that happened, but look where we are now.
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LOL - thank you Meagan - I am feeling heaps better today and much more positive that this is going to happen for us. We really are very fortunate to be in a positive where we don't have to sell - it would just mean that we wouldn't be able to move and build for the old people in the house that we all fell in love with BUT it doesn't mean it won't happen, it just may not happen in that house.
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Oh Linda I'm so sad to hear that it's being so hard on you. I can't imagine the stress of it, of having to always make it ready for people to look through. I've never had to go through this process but I too would be WELL over it probably by 2 weeks! I hope that the right person sees what an amazing house you have soon. And you know what, I think it's okay to have a big tanty every now and then, it's unrealistic to expect ourselves to be happy and positive all the time, so you have my blessing to have a big pity party for one, it's good for the soul. HUGS lovely and sorry taken so long to get around to IBOT, work, kids pulling books apart and family dramas. En, xxx
ReplyDeleteThanks for the permission to have a tanty - I love that it's OK to do that and then get over it !!! I had my pity party on the weekend and Monday and half of Tuesday - since then I have been feeling heaps more positive which is a great thing. Hey - you have so much on I don't know how you manage to do all that you do anyway - don't apologise for leaving a comment !!!!
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Thank you so much, the card arrived today :)
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome - I hope it brought a smile to you.
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Oh, that sounds ruddy awful! No, I have no experience selling my home, or at least, not while I've been in it. But a very good friend went through the same sort of process last year, and it was stressful just to watch it, much less live it. Fingers crossed you don't have to go another four weeks!
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Yeah it's exhausting selling houses isn't it? Never an was process. My sister has finally just sold hers after about a year of waiting. But they were interstate and had tenants in being uncooperative so that made it harder, but she was well and truly over it. Hope it sells for you quickly, and at the right price xx
ReplyDeleteOh wow - a year of waiting to sell - I definitely don't think I could do that. And selling interstate would be even more difficult. Fingers crossed it sells soon - and yes, definitely at the right price !!
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just catching up hon - far behind on blog reading - so sorry this is stressful and hurting - i am thinking of you and sending vibes to the universe to send you your right people asap xxx
ReplyDeleteThanks Deb - all positive vibes greatly appreciated !!
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Don't lose hope someone does want to live in your home it's just a waiting game until the right buyer comes along. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteThanks Michelle - you are right - it's just a waiting game. And once you have an offer it's a game of chicken as to what price you are going to get - whoever blinks first is he !!!
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This really is the sucky part of real estate!! We didn't go through the whole open house thing, but also didn't sell as quickly as we expected. It was such a relief to have it over and done with. You're doing so well putting up with it all L, good on you.
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Thanks Lisa - yes, from what we were told we thought it would have sold quicker but, it will happen when it's meant to happen - I just need to be patient. I think it's the universe trying to teach me that lesson because I am not very good at it !!!
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Well, that is what it is. The housing market is fickle and susceptible to turns at the last minute, since it involves more than just a home, but a larger economic situation. In fact, the latter is more impacting here than in any kind of commodity and property, because it is not only quite an effort to clinch a home, it's also an added challenge to wrestle with histories, associations and attachments that entail such real estate. Best you can do is to keep on, and be astute to current trends. It is important at least that you get to know enough to lay down all the alternatives for contingencies.
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Thanks Blair - have a great weekend !
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I had exactly the same thing last year. Everyone telling me my house would sell straight away but it didn't...mine took 4 weeks. I was so frustrated because it was empty at the time and so was not generating any income for me and I was struggling! The advertising was costing me a fortune and in the end I took the first offer that came my way (I did haggle a little) and while it was a fair bit less than what I wanted I was desperate for it to be gone that I accepted... I hope something comes your way..
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So frustrating :( My folks have had their place at Boonah on the market for 2 years!! We were so very very lucky. Sending you all of those lovely positive vibes xx
ReplyDeleteI hear you! Although our house sold quickly, it's the aftermath that's doing my head in! I hope it improves soon :-)
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